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Beginner’s Guide to Sexy Lingerie: 10 Styles Every Woman Should Try

You don’t need a reason to feel sexy—you just need the right lingerie.  

Whether you’re exploring the world of lace and lingerie for the first time or finally tossing out those stretched-out beige bras (we see you, babe), this guide is your sensual starter pack.

At Angel After Dark, we believe lingerie is more than what you wear underneath—it’s how you feel underneath it all. Strong. Sexy. Untamed.

Let’s dive into the 10 hottest lingerie styles every woman should try at least once. 

1. Curve-Loving Chemise

Woman posing in a fitted striped chemise with bow strap details, leaning against a vanity in a softly lit room

Think of the chemise as the little black dress of lingerie. It hugs, smooths, and reveals just enough. With plunging necklines, sheer lace panels, and silky finishes, a chemise whispers elegance while hinting at something wilder underneath.

Perfect for beginners—especially if you want to show a little more without feeling exposed.

2. Alluring Teddy

Woman wearing a black lace teddy with cutout sides, posing by an open window in warm evening light

Equal parts flirty and fierce, the teddy is a one-piece wonder that covers just enough to tease—and clings in all the right places. Whether it’s lace, mesh, or bold cutouts, a teddy flatters your curves while giving you that “I’m in control” energy.

Bonus: they double as bodysuits under blazers or jeans for a daring outerwear look.

3. Hot Bra & Panty Set

Woman in a matching red lace bra and panty set, sitting on a bed with a confident, seductive expression

A timeless classic—and the most versatile lingerie duo. From romantic lace to sheer mesh, open cups, or strappy cutouts, there’s a set for every mood. Easy to wear, impossible to ignore.

4. Garter Belts & Suspenders

Close-up of a woman wearing black lingerie with garter belt and suspenders, highlighting the sultry details against softly lit background

Want to feel like the boss of the bedroom? This vintage-inspired combo cinches your waist, elongates your legs, and turns up the heat. Pair with thigh highs or let the straps tease bare skin—either way, it’s all about power and allure.

Pro tip: Skip the panties if you're feeling bold.

5. Crotchless Panties

Woman adjusting red lace crotchless panties with pearl detail and black bow, wearing leopard-print lingerie above

Crotchless panties are the ultimate tease—provocative, playful, and designed for unforgettable moments. With delicate lace, daring cutouts, and barely-there designs, they blend comfort with temptation in all the right ways. Slip them on when you want to surprise, seduce, or simply feel unstoppable.

6. The Sheer Bodysuit

Woman posing under falling water in a black sheer fishnet bodysuit, creating a dramatic and sensual atmosphere

For the girl who wants it all—a little support, a lot of style, and a hint of danger. A sheer bodysuit covers more than a teddy but still reveals everything. Think embroidered mesh, deep V necklines, and sheer hips that accentuate every curve.

Wear it in the bedroom or out on the town with heels and confidence.

7. The Bustier

Woman wearing a light pink satin bustier top paired with green pants, accessorized with layered necklaces and sunglasses in a casual street-style look

More than just a top, a bustier is lingerie armor. It lifts your bust, smooths your waist, and turns any outfit (or bedroom moment) into a sultry affair. Want that hourglass illusion? This one’s your go-to.

8. The Open-Cup Bra

Woman in vintage-inspired lingerie featuring a strappy open-cup bra and high-waisted garter skirt, posing confidently in front of a window

Not for the faint of heart—this bra is made for maximum tease. Open cup or shelf bras offer lift and shape while leaving your breasts deliciously exposed. You’ll feel confident, daring, and a little dangerous.

9. Thigh Highs

Woman wearing black lace-top thigh highs and garter straps, straddling a man in a suit seated on a teal chair in a sensual setting

Thigh highs bring instant drama—elegant, leg-lengthening, and endlessly seductive. Whether paired with a garter belt or worn solo with silicone stay-ups, they’re the perfect finishing touch that says, “I planned this.” From silky sheer to fishnet to lace-topped, they flatter every curve and bring major main-character energy to the bedroom… or the bar.

10. The Peekaboo Panty (aka Open Back Panties)

Close-up side view of a woman wearing black strappy peekaboo panties and a pink lace bra, standing by a window

Sometimes it’s not about what you show—it’s about what you hint at. Peekaboo panties or open back panties use sheer panels, cutouts, or lace details to give your lover a visual preview. They’re playful, daring, and totally addictive.

How to Start Buying (and Rocking) Sexy Lingerie Like a Pro

  • Let Go of Perfection – Feel Your Gorgeous

Sexy isn’t about meeting some standard. It’s about how you feel in your own skin. Every curve, every freckle, every soft place on your body deserves to be adored—especially by you. Don’t wait until you feel “ready” or “perfect”—you already are. Wear what excites you. Play with textures, colors, and styles. This is your permission to feel hot exactly as you are.

  • Know Your Size!

Nothing kills confidence faster than lingerie that pinches, rides up, or gaps in all the wrong places. Get professionally measured at a boutique or use a soft tape measure at home to check your bust, waist, and hips. Not sure where to start? Use our Lingerie Size Guide to get your numbers right. And always double-check the size chart on each piece while shopping online.

  • Start with One Piece You Love

Not ready for a full-on lace bodysuit or open cup bra? No problem. Start with a silky thong, a flirty bralette, or a sheer chemise you can sleep in. When you wear something that makes you feel sexy, you’ll naturally radiate that energy—whether someone else sees it or not.

  • Mix Lingerie into Your Everyday Life

Lingerie isn’t just for the bedroom. Try styling a lacy bodysuit with high-waisted jeans, or wear a pretty bra & panty set under your work clothes as your little secret. Feeling sexy throughout the day is a power move.

  • Build Your Confidence with Matching Sets

Matching lingerie is a secret weapon. It doesn’t matter if anyone sees it—you know it’s there. And that’s enough to lift your posture, your mood, and your entire vibe. Treat it like your daily uniform for feeling magnetic.

Sexy Starts with You

Sexy lingerie is all about releasing the bold, beautiful, powerful version of you. Whether it’s a lacy thong or a showstopping garter set, the only rule is: wear what makes you feel unstoppable.

From barely-there to bold and bossy, Angel After Dark has your back (and your front).

Explore our collection of sultry essentials and daring details—because confidence looks good on you.
Shop the sexiest lingerie of the season now—only at Angel After Dark.

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